Just Say You Can’t Afford It
There’s nothing novel about not having nice things.
“I don’t have a Rolex.”
“I don’t wear designer.”
“You’ve got that many watches? What a waste.”
Nice.
But let’s be honest.
That’s not a philosophy.
That’s a situation.
Most people don’t have those things because they can’t afford them.
Not because they’ve taken some high ground.
And that’s fine.
There’s nothing wrong with not being able to afford something.
But dressing it up like it’s some enlightened decision?
That’s where it gets boring.
“I’d rather invest it or buy property”
Yawn.
You think people with money aren’t investing?
You think it’s one or the other?
It’s not.
The people who really have money do both.
They invest.
And they buy nice things.
Because they can.
That’s the difference.
If you genuinely didn’t care about those things, you wouldn’t keep mentioning them.
You wouldn’t need to justify it.
You wouldn’t need to explain why you don’t have them.
You’d just live your life.
But the constant commentary?
That usually comes from a place of not having the option.
And again, that’s fine.
Just be real about it.
Because if you had the money you’d have the nice things too if they’re your thing.
You’re telling me you wouldn’t buy a few things you like?
You wouldn’t upgrade your life a bit?
You would.
Most people would.
So let’s stop pretending.
There’s no virtue in not having nice things.
There’s no medal for it.
There’s just where you are right now.
And that can change.
But it starts with being honest.
Not performative.